Scary, ain't it?

Mum and Dad have been actively looking out for a groom for my elder sis. Almost every evening, the three of them position themselves in front of the computer and exploit the internet scanning through the various matrimonial sites. I usually burst out laughing at some of the wired pictures these prospective grooms post (belive me, "burst out laughing" is an understatement.) During one such incident, my sister gave me a glare and said two simple things:

“Stop laughing! You are looking at your future Brother-in-laws.” My my, how many BIL’s am I actually gonna have?

AND

“Remember, the ones that get discarded, will be the ones that will be considered for you!”

Now, which one is scary? The former or the latter?